How to be anti-social – a guide to incoherent and isolating social experiences

if someone is confusing or upsetting you, assume they have no sane reason for doing or saying what they are doing or saying

when ambiguous, assume intent is malicious, ignorant, or amoral. interpret others' actions in the context of your fears

do not challenge or acknowledge the existence or influence of your assumptions, wholly trust your intuition and feelings

pivot conversations when someone challenges your assumptions or cites reasoning outside your wheelhouse. avoid displaying a lack of knowledge in any domain – this is seen as weakness

if you must ask questions, imply the correctness of your originally held position by wording your question suggestively

dig in your heels when confronted with overwhelming dissent

exploit your immediate network; when the obvious merits of your narrative are exhausted, present like-minded people with tastefully curated details of your interactions with detractors, to provide a more appropriate account that your supporters can rally around to crush any lingering threats to your narrative

do not research or consider the record, acumen or credentials of those with whom you speak, unless you agree with them

do not grant grace to those who make mistakes

1, especially those that you have never met or otherwise spoken towhen all hope is lost in conversation, retreat into your self

do not seek to understand those you do not already understand